Tips for How to Get Your Ex-Girlfriend Back

By Erik Michaels

Breaking up with your girlfriend isn't usually the high point of your day...in fact, it can ruin all your days for weeks or even months! However, that's only if you let it. If you can correct your wrongs and get in gear, you can get her back and go back to living happily at her side! You just have to know how!

It really doesn't have to be all that difficult, either. Girls aren't as insanely complicated as they can sometimes seem, and all the things they ask of you can usually be summed up into one simple desire: they just want to feel cared for. The reason she probably broke up with you is because she wasn't feeling cared for. To get her back, you need to correct this.

Feeling cared for is more than just being loved and knowing it. Sometimes just telling her you love her isn't enough, you have to be there for her and give her what she needs. Being cared for can include a wide range of things, including being loved, having support (both emotional and financial), having stability, and a lot of other relationship and life situations.

Whatever she wasn't getting, you weren't giving. You have to figure out what you were doing wrong, and fix it in yourself if you ever want to get her back again or even to have a chance with someone else. The first step in your road to getting your ex girlfriend back is simple reflection, sitting down with yourself and figuring out what went wrong.

Once you've come up with a list of all the things that you did in the relationship that probably contributed to her dumping you (and this may be a long list depending on your situation), the time comes to start doing something about them. All of the major things that made her unhappy enough to leave need to be fixed, or else you're never going to get her back.

This'll probably take a while, but when you do feel that you've taken care of any and all large problems, you can start to break back into a relationship with her --but take it slow! Even if she still loves you and you have your act together, she may still not exactly LIKE you, and rushing things or pushing too aggressively will lose her for good. Start off small, with a phone call seeing how she's doing. Keep things light and nonthreatening until it's clear she's comfortable with a little more.

Take baby steps until you can walk again, and with the work you've done on yourself you'll have a pretty good shot of getting her back! Keeping her after that is just a matter of keeping the changes you've made to your behavior. Rest assured that if you revert to how you were during the first (and failed) relationship, this one will go the same way. Don't win the war just so you can break the peace again yourself.

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