Have The Dating Rules Changed? - Eight Dating Don'ts

By Francis K. Githinji

Dating rules confuse a lot of people especially since the period women started going to Geneva. Men do not know exactly what is expected of them. In fear of offending their lovers, they do not follow the conventional dating rules. To put this problem to rest for once and for all i thought of reminding you the dating don'ts. It puts confusion in many singles mind. May be as a woman you do not know what to complain about without looking foolish and a traditionalist. Do you have a problem if he opens the car door for you? Do you have a problem if she asks you out? At the end of the day everyone wants to be treated right. Among the dating don'ts is to avoid distractions at all costs. Switch off your cell phone and keep your eyes from wandering all the time. Is this too much to ask? Some people are always glued to their phones, it becomes irritating. Scrolling through your phone during a date sends the message that you are disinterested. Incoming calls forces you leave what you were saying to answer the calls. Another dating don't is to turn your date into a therapy session. It is not your time to lament about your quarrelsome mother or your nagging ex-girlfriend. You did not come to release your pain during your first date. Keep off all those topics that will send the message that are in emotional casualty.

Do not pretend to be Mr. Or Miss perfect. It sucks like hell. You do not have to pretend that you were born and bred in church, attended the best schools and work in a top rate company. Reality and honesty will work for you in more than one ways. Nobody is perfect. It is a dating don't to play a nice girl or a nice guy by agreeing to everything your date says. Stand on your ground. It is about learning each other. Intellectual arguments should be encouraged but whatever you say do not insult your date's intelligence. Do not show any uncouth behavior. By this i mean uninvited physical advances. If chemistry works right for you, you can hold hands or kiss but do not false it. First dates are very sensitive.

Among the dating don'ts is a lot of alcohol. Do not take alcohol excessively. People have never known that you can't date and drink. If you have to you should stick to not more than two beers or glasses of wine. Alcohol impairs the way of thinking. Do not get afraid of terminating the date early. If for one reason or another you do not enjoy the date or you are uncomfortable, end the date. You can find better things to do with your time. Women shy away from proposing a date. Men think that women who approach them are confident and attractive. Ask him to accompany you for a concert or a movie. This is a sure way of asking for a date indirectly.

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